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I am a sex-positive person and spend my days talking and writing about sex. I'm also a submissiveand I'm open about that too. It only goes to follow that I talk to a lot of people about their kinks.
What is my ethnicity: I was born in Bolivia
What is the color of my hair: Long thick honey-blond hair
I like to drink: Stout
I have always fantasised about being spanked. Then one day, several years ago, my girlfriend gave me a few playful smacks on the bottom.
I dared her to put me across her knee. She did and we both enjoyed it.
Things carried on from there. After a few more spankings with her bare hand, we bought a wooden paddle from a sex shop.
It really stings, and after a good spanking with it I find sitting down very uncomfortable for the next few hours. Spanking sometimes le to intercourse, but is also an erotic act in itself.
As well as being intimate, spanking has benefited our relationship. One morning, I was in a grumpy mood and snapped at my girlfriend. In popular culture it often seems to be the man who spanks his female partner, but I follow several blogs by couples where the woman spanks the man.
As well as spanking for erotic purposes, some say they use it as discipline to make sure he does his fair share of the chores. Want to share yours?
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Once upon a time, spanking was only ever talked about out loud as a punishment method for naughty children then in a non-sexual scenario, of course but in recent years, the stigma around the fetish has been lifted.