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Thalia Anthony does not work for, consult, own shares in or receive funding from any company or organisation that would benefit from this article, and has disclosed no relevant affiliations beyond their academic appointment. Christian Grey knows exactly his hard limits in sadomasochism and he may also know a thing or two about his legal limits. The layers of coercion, consent, pleasure and pain are as complex as the acronym itself and defined by the participants themselves. The cinematic of this fiction — released this past weekend — illustrates some of the problematic demarcations in the law of assault in the real world. The law is a bit confounded too.

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Do chains and whips excite you? Firstly, before you can explore kink, you need to make sure to discuss this with your partner. Just like it takes two to tango, it takes two to be kinky.

Make sure to lay out anything and every thing that either of you are comfortable and especially uncomfortable with. The first step to really getting into kink is to talk about it, this includes your soft and hard limits. These are limits that you maybe can change your mind on later on or are limits that you can maybe be persuaded into at some point.

The main point of soft limits is to let your partner know that these are things that make you uncomfortable. To manage a soft limit, it requires a lot of discussion on whether or not there can be specific conditions to each limit that make them a possibility at some point.

Although they are soft, they are still a limit after all.

Violating a hard limit is just as bad as violating your partner. Discussing limits is a very important aspect of BDSM that should never be left until later. Another very important aspect is the use of a safe word. This can be any word, from a colour or food or any other word you can possibly think of.

Make sure this word is easy to say and understand. Here are some simple and fun ways to slowly enter into the world of BDSM:.

Start off your exploration with some neckties, scarves or even some old t-shirts that you can cut up. Another interesting thing you could try is some light impact play. You can use anything from a belt, your own hand or even a wooden spoon make sure you clean it though.

Try out different objects around your house before you invest in an actual whip, flogger or paddle. Give your partner the time to get used to the feeling of being hit and make sure to avoid hitting any sensitive spots such as the stomach.

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Test out multiple rhythms and see what works best! Something for those a little more adventurous, why not give role-playing a chance?

Put yourself in a fun little scenario and act out your favourite porn scene. You can be anyone!

Make sure to fully discuss this with your partner and try and keep your scenarios as lighthearted as possible. Sometimes it can be really fun to let go of your individual persona and take on the role of someone completely different. Soft Limits These are limits that you maybe can change your mind on later on or are limits that you can maybe be persuaded into at some point.

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In BDSM, limits refer to issues that participants in a play scene or dynamic feel strongly about, usually referring to prohibited activities.

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As a submissive, one of the first things you will be asked by almost every Dominant is: what are your limits?

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But what exactly is the difference between hard and soft limits?

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